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A story of UMMU SULAIM. (oleh ahli jemputan: Nik Amalina)
-nickname die Rumaisyah or Ghumaisyah. she is a periwayat hadith.
-her 1st husband is Malik. and she had a son with him, named Anas Bin Malik. when ummu sulaim n her son masuk islam, her husband migrate ke syam. n he died there.
-she remained a widow for some time. n one day, Abu Talhah (one of org Ansar yg dihormati) masuk meminang her. n you know what she did? she tolak the peminangan unless he masuk islam. n that was the mahar kawin for her. she ade ank with him, named Abu Umair.
-one fine day, Abu Talhah puasa n out for work. at home, Abu Umair (their son) sakit n then mati. she uruskn la kan the body. when her husband pulang ke rumah, n had his iftar, her husband tnye "hows my child?" then she jwp "he is now in peace". he was satisfied taking the meaning literally.
-that nyte, they shared bed. ummu sulaim ask her husband "suppose a person is enterusted with something. should he deliver up on demand that which is enterusted on him or not" her husband replied "he must deliver up. he has no right" n she replied back "Abu Umair was enterusted to us by Allah. He has taken him back". that was the way which she told her husband about her dead son.
-she told her husband in that way sbb she tak nak ckp while her husband was fasting n baru nk buka puasa n rehat2. see! that was soooo brave ok! she tak cry n boleh tahan that kind of story n 'bersama' suami die mlm tu. huh! hebat!
-Abu Talhah g jumpe Rasulullah. n tnye bla bla bla. n Rasulullah jwp, Allah will bless the sharing of bed with ur wife last nyte. so, the couple got a son named Abdullah. yg mane 7generasi drpdnya adalah pejuang islam.
-ummu sulaim ni jugak pernah offer anak die, Anas utk jd org kanan kpd Rasulullah.
-on another note: she like to bwk pisau when pegi perang. her reason, evntho pompuan tak berperang, tp she has to protect herself. hehe.. so cute! (bak kate nik)
-dont know where this story would fit in. tp nk tunjukkan Abu Talhah ni seorg yg ikhlas. he pernah bg roti kt Rasulullah. n then Rasulullah bwk org ramai ke rumah die utk mkn. but he gave whatever he has. n fortunately cukup for all the ppl there.
-so, kesimpulannyer, korang buat lah sendiri.. hehehe.. yg clearly seen from the story here is: she is clear with her stand, she is very sabar, she is brave n bijak!
RUKUN & ADAB-ADAB USRAH (oleh kak husna)
3rukun: Taaruf, Tafahum, Takaful [find out the makna urself eyh. haha]
11adab:
- Niat ikhlas. [hujah: hadis 1]
- Menepati masa.
- Mintak izin kuar n masuk usrah.
- Dlm keadaan berwudu' & bersih jiwa.
- Bawa keperluan. eg: tafsir, buku catatan.
- Hasrat utk dpt ilmu & kuatkan ukhwah.
- Start with Al-fatihah, selawat, puji-pujian, tadabur.
- Jgn ketawa, tak byk bergurau & bertengkar.
- Berusaha utk rapatkn ukhwah di kalangan alhi usrah.
- Sopan santun.
- Bermaaf-maafan.
HARI PERHITUNGAN (oleh kak aimi)
- Surah Al-Mukminun Ayt 99-100. manusia mintak nk balik ke dunia supaya boleh buat kebajikan, tp Allah ckp tidak, sbb He tahu itu sumua dalih manusia.
- apabila pertanyaan dimulakan, sume org hanya mampu mengiakn sahaja. sbb semuanya benar belaka.
- sape2 yg dihisab dgn terperinci, adalah petanda die akn kene azab. ie masuk neraka.
- ade golongan yg Allah ckp begini: sbb di dunia kamu selalu menutup keaiban org lain, maka hari ini keaibanmu akan ditutup. n die masuk syurga.
- pd hari tersebut, mulut akan ditutup, anggota akn menjadi saksi [dalil surah Yasin ayat 65] so, sbb tu la kite kene jage anggota badan kite. ade 3sbb. 1) sbb semuanya adalah nikmat Allah. 2) ia adalah amanah dr Allah. 3) sbb die akan menjadi saksi di akhirat kelak.
- slps dihitung, kite akn terima buku amalan kite. if terima dgn tgn kanan, adalah sgt beruntung. sbb most probably akn masuk syurga. kalo tgn kiri, adalah celaka. n kalo 50-50 kite akn sgt menyesal.
- kt sini dh takde org kite nk mintak tolong. tp sempat lg nk dptkn syafaat. dr Rasulullah, Sahabat (ie org2 yg mati syahid) n org2 tahfiz. so kat dunia ni marilah kite bersalawat kpd Rasul.
- ade lg satu term. "kafarah dosa". maksudnye Allah ampunkn dosa kite dgn memberi sakit di dunia atau seksa kubur. supaya di akhirat kelak, dosa2 kite telah dikurangkan/diampunkan.
- titian siratul mustaqim (nurul, plis jgn konfius wif siratul rahim.. hehe) ni adalah titian utk ke syurga. tetapi di bwhnya ade neraka. maka sape yg jatuh tu masuk neraka la. kelajuan kite ats titian tu bergantung kpd amalan. ada yg laju spt cahaya, ada yg naik kenderaan, ada yg berjalan kaki, ada yg mengengsot n ade yg jatuh. huhu.. hopefully tak jd yg jatuh tu.. na'uzubillah.
Surah Al-Kausar (oleh kak aimi)
surah ni diturunkn sbb... kan sume anak laki Rasulullah mati kan, so he sedih laa.. n org ramai ejek him. sbb zaman dulu, kalo takde anak laki ni mcm takde penyambung keturunan la. so nnt sape nk sampaikan all his dakwah kn. so, surah di diturunkan. sbnrnye Allah bg nikmat yg sgt byk kt nabi Muhamad ni. cth nye: nama die sisi nama Allah dlm kalimah syahadah. so, Allah menyuruh laksanakan solat n korban kerana Dia, supaya kite dpt dkt kn diri dgn Dia. n sape2 yg benci kt nabi Muhamad ni akn terputus dr nikmat Allah, maksudnye diorg lah yg rugi.